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I’ve been looking all over the i for someone who help me with my problem, then I found this.

Please help.

the problem:

I am in a b school, so there are dorms and such.

I met this guy when he joihe school about a year ago.

hes a tad older than me, Im 15, he’s 18…

he is my best friend. We share on is, music etd i think he cares about me, he is a genuinely nice guy, he is perfect.

I am in love with him.

I really really am, and I t imagine my life without him.

I know that sounds like a lot, but all I really want is one experience.

Im not “out” yet, although I expee people assume that I’m gay…

he is here for another year, and then he is gone…and i never want to lose him as a friend, but I feel that if I never get to be intimate with him, i will never be satisfied…and it’s so difficult.

what I do?

please help.

maybebi says:

March 28, 2011 at 9:35 am

Hi, Jazz -

Ohing really jumped out at me from your ent ― you’re 15. Your whole future is filled with stuff you literally ’t imagi ― not because you’re stupid or anything, but just because life turns out to be so much more awesome and wonderful (and sometimes painful and sad) than we expect.

You really like this friend of yours, and that’s great. But he’s going to be gone from school in another year, and then what? It’ll be hard to say goodbye even if you’re still “just good friends” then. It’s much harder to say goodbye to a friend you’ve let yourself be in love with. It’s harder still when you’ve also had sex with him… trust me, I know from experience.

My advice? Realize that what you’ve probably got is just a crush. Sounds girly? Nope, guys do it all the time, even on uys. It doesn’t necessarily mean sexual desire, it doesn’t mean anyone’s gay, it doesn’t mean he’d make a good boyfriend. (First boyfriend, I’m guessing?)

Figure out why you like this guy so much. Sounds like you really look up to him. Work on being like him, if you want. But don’t worry about getting into his pants… even if it’s frustrating… don’t make things harder on yourself by making the eventual separation that much more painful. Focus on knowing who you are and what you want. You’ll be that much more ready for a real relationship when the right person (guy irl) es along.

Think about it… right now, you’re just going to miss seeing him and hearing him and being around him. If you try to get him into bed, and you succeed, you’ll wind up missing his toud the feel of him in your arms and the way his body feels on yours. If you try to get him into bed, and FAIL ― it’ll be awkward, even if he doesn’t get mad about it.

Jazz says:

March 28, 2011 at 10:31 am

Thank you so much- This has helped alot :)

Tj says:

April 9, 2011 at 8:57 pm

Thanks for the respoo my last question, it def quelled a lot of my wonder and decided unless clearly in lust to not go there with this bro of a friend.

I’m of course ied in araight guy or more just bewildered by…he came by the other day to meet my son and hang with my babymama when i went to go grab beers for us he followed me into the kit and said ‘so you’re home a lot now?’ (staying at home with the baby) and I said that yes to which his reply was ‘well I’m free most Friday afternoons’ and of course before he left he made sure to get my his dude is more on the avquaintence side of friendship and is more acquainted with babymama. Babymama says she’s always thought of this guy as gay and that at gay fairs he will walk around with his shirt off just so the other men will fawn all over him….and I’m sure they do. We’ve smoked together a few times, goo q few parties with groups of people bit we are not best bids by any means which makes his as only slightly less plicated than my last straight boy infatuation. It seemed kind of random and I felt I was being really intuitively keen on reading his words and body language. I never know with straight guys!! Babymama thinks I should just give him a call over one day and just put my head in his crotd see what happens. While he was over he kept makiact with me as we talked which was just unusual cause like I said hes more a friend of my babymama……the whole iion was kinda hot and his subtleties def. turn me on.

Thank you again I appreciate your hetero insight and i wish i wasn’t surrounded by so many sexy ambiguous straight guys…kind of.

Tj says:

April 9, 2011 at 9:00 pm

Wait be said he was free *almost every afternoon…straight guys, my thrust and an iPhone do not mix

Marc says:

April 9, 2011 at 11:11 pm

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