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He always makes jokes about me wanting him to touch me and that he won’t do it…
I sider myself bisexual, irely gay, I am in a relationship with a girl I really like, and with whom I picture my future with….but the only guy I would give all that up for is he.
He even asked me yesterday if I really love the girl I am with, and I told him what did he mean by that, aold me that if I pictured myself iure with her or something, and I told him I did, and I asked him if he actually loved his girlfriend or the irl he’s dating (yes, he is with 2 girls now…again), aold me he didn’t…that he actually wao be single, and that the only one from those 2 he ever thought about something more iure was his girlfriend, but that he still felt he didn’t love her…
I know it’s a pretty long story, but I would like to hear your ents about it…and tell me what you think I should do, or if you think I’ve got a ce with him…
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makosanders says:
October 9, 2009 at 8:12 am
That is long. Rather plete really, resolved, so there’s nothing I feel I o say to you about it.
But thanks a lot for sharing.
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pordiosporsanto says:
May 29, 2011 at 1:31 pm
i think what you did was a very good thing to do. many people thinks that being gay is the only thing you be when you like a man so much. People feel ected to another person whoever or whatever sexuality that person has. Also, being labeled is not how the game goes. I hope you tinue beied to your best friend.
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latinboy says:
November 26, 2008 at 9:50 pm
BTW, I gotta say that no one knows about this, or that I have feelings fuy…and that I don’t know what to do…
He has told me before that he wouldn’t be friend with a gay guy…ahough I’m not gay, but bi, I’m afraid that if he gets to know how I feel, our friendship is going to be ruined…
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Joe says:
February 13, 2009 at 9:10 am
Latinboy, I feel really badly for you, buddy. Sounds to me like you might be one of a rare breed — a true bisexual. As much as you obviously love this guy (and it’s clear that he loves you as well), I think from what you said that he’s never going to be the person you need him to be for you. He obviously has some homosexual feelings too; the thing is, he deals with them in a ive aive way — it’s a cer in him that he must not give in to, it’s something to be denied aually eradicated. Whereas Ynize your feelings toward him as a valid part of you, something you’re not ashamed of, even if it does make your life a living hell sometimes. You’re being ho with yourself and fag this head on. He’s doing the opposite. He’s not iionally playing head games with you to cause you any pain (and you know this); he’s just incapable of dealing with his attra to you. Sometimes this inability to deal with these feelings actually surfa the form of hostility toward the very person that they’re attracted to. And that, my friend, is no good at all for you. And remember that what you really o do here is watch out for yourself. You are too vulnerable to him now, it sounds like, and he’s just too uable.
This will be tough to hear but it will ultimately be best for you to put some serious distaween you two ahe bonds weaken. Luckily, college should do this for you.
I speak from experiey much all of the above.
I hope this helps, buddy, and good luck.
Joe
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